Why Do We Make an Attack Personal ?

Too often we make an attack or an argument personal. If you have read my post before you know that I have cautioned against making arguments …personal. But aren’t relationships personal? Yes they are but in every relationship every thing isn’t going to be a easy fix or agreed upon situation, it’s great if it is no doubt about it but when it isn’t don’t resort to name calling cursing and shouting …calling someone you claim to love stupid isn’t going to win them over , actually it is going to have the reverse effect, it is going to over time push them away. Saying things like “You never listen to me” or You always …is over dramatizing and talking in absolutes avoid doing that. No one is absolute in their actions so we should not be that way in our speech as well.

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