I have touched on this subject before (Is it healthy to Argue? Part 1 and part 2). Some believe it is going to happen, there is going to be a difference of opinion and to some extent that is true but this is different. How? Are you a argumentative person, someone who argues for the sake of arguing or arguing without really getting their point across or always confrontational? If this is the case this could deal breaker in your relationship and in time that will be one thing that will push your spouse or partner away from you completely. It’s one thing to have a difference of opinion it’s a totally different matter all together when someone is argumentative. Is your goal to win the argument? Then you will win but eventually lose the person you are with. What should be the goal? To express your feelings in a way that will garner respect by your mate or partner, not push them away feeling they can’t talk to you.