In my younger years, it was nothing to have an argument with my then spouse. I was good as long as it wasn’t personal meaning my rule has always been argue about what the argument is about, if it is the curtains then the argument is the curtain, not bills, not your momma is a drunk or your father is …the point is when you are young you devote time and energy to an argument that in the long run means …NOTHING
So yes, today it may seem like a good idea to win an argument but what do you lose in the long run? The love and respect of your spouse. Is it really worth it?