Believe You are Worth More …Because you are

So much of the trouble we cause ourselves in life has more to do with how we view ourselves. No matter how much money we make, how nice a house we live in, how pretty we are or how handsome we are, how young or old we are …there is always a little voice inside us that tell us no matter how good things are…we don’t deserve it. So we make bad choices, wrong decisions based on that insecurity alone.

For example if you don’t like being alone at home or in a room, you likely end up taking in a roommate even if you know deep inside chances are it will not be to your liking, because it’s better than living alone.

Or being in a toxic relationship long past it’s expiration date , we stay in it because having somebody is better than no one at all. Well let’s be clear about the above…choose to make better decisions because you deserve better. If you keep telling yourself I’m in this relationship because it’s all I have or I am still at this job because I don’t have a choice or I took in a roommate who is a pig and is nasty because it beats living alone then you are choosing to set yourself up for failure. Why? Because you are saying to yourself that you are worthless and that you don’t deserve better.

I am here to tell you that is a myth. Stop buying into the myth. You are worth more, believe you are worth more …Because you are.

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4 responses

  1. You make a good point. Especially when it comes to toxic relationships. Its very easy to waste time in a relationship because you are scared of being single. But single time should actually be seen as an opportunity, rather than a problem. Its a good opportunity to focus on yourself and do the things you love rather than live in another persons shadow the whole time.

    1. That’s the advice I gave to my daughter recently

      1. I’m learning this slowly…. Enough bad dates and you realise that focusing on the things you love is more satisfying

      2. At least you’re learning. Now make decisions about who you choose to allow in your life.

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