We all hit rough patches in live and need something to uplift us at the right time. I know some of you dear readers of this blog are having a rough time so I try to enough you to hang in there. Take one day at a time. I know this because I live this. I ran across this song by Shelia E. It is so lovely so inspiring and uplifting. Give it a listen. Take it one day at a time, make each day a Lovely Day.
Just to let you know I am not breaking new ground here. This advice is as old as well …possibly since the very beginning when man and woman first become one. Yet we tend to forget it is the little things that we feel make or break a relationship. I don’t mean flowers or walks in the park , those are nice too but as my wife mentioned to me when I first met her it is the little things that impress her , flowers for no reason, chocolates for no reason , but the bigger thing for her is when I pay attention to her when she talks. Being interested in her day. Looking forward to spending time together. Making plans for vacation. Those things are little but mean everything. One other thing if you see you are distracted by the tv when she is talking …here is a hint turn it off. Make her the center of your attention. Right then and then she will get more turned on to that gesture than flowers and candy.
Like I said I am not breaking new ground but sharing advice. What about you? What little things do you like that shows love is in the little things?